Take Back Your Life After an Abusive Relationship
With a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and
Experienced High-Conflict Divorce Coach
Develop a strategy and take charge of your high-conflict divorce or custody battle
Are you stuck in a high-conflict separation, divorce, or custody battle with an abusive person?
Does your ex do one or more of these?
Dragging out court proceedings and driving up your lawyer's fees?
Accusing you of parental alienation?
Harassing you with accusatory messages or emails?
Using money and power to control you?
Undermining your attempts to co-parent?
Using your children as weapons against you?
Conducting a smear campaign against you?
Making you doubt your reality, memory, and perceptions?
Do you feel like you're all alone — no-one understands how you're suffering in your high-conflict divorce or custody battle?
No matter how you respond, family court judges treat you as part of the problem?
Imagine a life where…
You're able to stay one move ahead of your abusive ex.
You don't get sucked into your ex's drama anymore.
You feel heard in court, and by experts dealing with your case.
You're not throwing all your money at lawyers.
You have a clear strategy and everything you do is consistent with that.
You're able to communicate with your ex without getting triggered.
You consistently create a safe and secure space for your children.
You've taken back your power and you're living your best life.
To get you there, you need a guide.
Someone who can help you develop a strategy and stay on course.
That's where I come in.
As a certified high-conflict divorce coach, I can help you…
Reduce your lawyers' fees with documentation and strategic communication.
Develop a plan that's tailored to your situation.
Set clear and positive limits with your ex.
Successfully respond to lies, manipulation and harassment from your ex.
Put your best foot forward with the courts and experts dealing with your case.
Show the court how you're parenting in the best interests of your children.
I'm not a lawyer, so I don't provide legal advice.
I'm not a therapist.
As a coach, I can help you get the most out of your lawyer and your therapist.
You need someone in your corner who knows what you're going through.
I'm that someone. I stepped out of the fire of an abusive relationship, right into a vicious divorce battle, driven by my ex-husband's need to destroy me in any way he could.
I haven't just seen it all, I've lived it all. And I came out on the other side stronger, determined to help others in my situation.
I've been guiding and supporting other victims of post-separation abuse for over six years.
Here's what people I've worked with say about me.
Rina was a grounding unflappable source of thoughtful advice and calm support during the worst days of my life. Having gone through the pain and upheaval of a high conflict separation herself, she was able to support me through the destabilization and agony of a former partner willing to do and say anything – including damage his own child – to punish me for leaving him, and a court system blind to one-sided conflict. Rina is both an experienced and caring coach and an example that I have seen many who like me were caught in the maelstrom of post-separation abuse looked to on dark days as proof that the pain and abuse will lessen, and that we too can make it through to a better life, and thrive.
I have been extremely fortunate to have been coached by Rina during my divorce from my ex-husband. It was a high-conflict situation and all the while, Rina helped facilitate the process by giving me the tools to speak to my ex and interpret the situation from the perspective of someone who had already dealt with domestic violence. I am forever grateful to her for educating me on the dynamic and the best route to take. She is knowledgeable, effective and patient. These are all qualities needed in a good coach