If you're a victim of post-separation abuse, I know what you're going through.
I was once you…
During my divorce, I needed someone who could listen to me and understand what I was going through.
No-one I knew had suffered a smear campaign or financial abuse, stalking, or harassment.
Even after I'd left my marriage, I was still enduring constant abuse and helplessly watching my children being abused.
I needed to talk about the pain that I was going through, but I was overburdening my new partner and my friends with my venting.
I could tell my lawyer if I wanted to spend thousands of dollars on fees. I could tell my therapist, but my trauma was ongoing.
What I needed was a coach—someone who knew what I was going through, who was willing to listen to me and give me actionable tips.
Sometimes my ex's messages and emails triggered me. At first, I fell into the trap of responding emotionally instead of strategically.
This was a mistake because it sometimes worsened things. It also didn't help my case when we went to court.
I needed a guide
- to teach me strategic communication and
- to help me move towards my goals instead of away from them.
Navigating my high-conflict divorce was a struggle…
…but I did it—one step at a time…
I built my tribe—other women in the same situation as me. I found out from them how predictable narcissistic abusers are.
I came out of the experience stronger and wiser than I was when I went in.
I learned to see past the bluster and not to fall for manipulation.
I wanted to use the lessons I learned to help others, so I trained to become a certified high-conflict divorce coach.
I'm here to help you as you navigate the rocky seas of a high-conflict divorce or custody battle.
I guide you, and I work with you to develop a strategy and express your truth authentically instead of getting blown off course by your ex's manipulations, harassment or accusations.
